Monday, June 14, 2010

Togetherness... a bliss

Every relationship has its efforts, it has its compromises. Relationships give you stability, they give you responsibility. Fun is an integral part of every love life. Couples tend to forget that each have a set of expectations from the relationship. The two people care for each other and try hard to make things work for each other. Sometimes they try too hard.

One forgets the limitations the other may have and the other forgets the expectations. Communication is necessary and words need to be backed up by actions. Promises need to be kept, but love never asks for proof. It is human to be disappointed. Expectations bring agony. Dreams build hope. Disappointment is the derivative of failure from your partner and elation is the integration of their achievement. Satisfaction is subjective and happiness lacks objectivity.

Reason or rhyme, in that order, fail to make sense and togetherness is a given irrespective of bitterness. Intentions are always noble and caring is a given. The complexities of the feeling associated directly to the heart makes it only more confusing, compulsive and characteristic of the pangs and pleasures of being in love.

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